When I read the beginning of this easy I wasn’t sure what
this easy would be about. It’s such a strange title because in our culture “Dropping
Babies” is seen as an abusive act. Rough handling babies’ period is highly
looked down on. It makes me think about the phrase “never shake a baby” and how
highly publicized it is. So when I read about how some cultures drop babies
from temple roof tops as part of a spiritual ceremony it really frightened me.
I don’t see how some people can see that as a blessing, good luck, or health. I
instantly thought of child abuse and what if something went wrong and the baby
fell and died. I don’t like the thought of dropping a baby even a couple inches
because they’re so fragile. But I do think the author does some interesting comparing
and contrasting between the crib and the village. The crib in this case is
compared to the village people that will catch the baby when it falls. The only
difference is the intentions of dropping the baby are different in both
instances. The person accidentally drops the baby in the crib out of
frustration while the baby is dropped from the temple intentionally for religious
reasons. So why then is dropping the baby from the temple seen as such a bad
act while the dropping in the crib isn’t? Maybe because the temple is so much
farther up and there’s a greater risk the baby can get hurt than falling in the
crib. But even still the baby could’ve gotten hurt from the crib fall since they’re
so tiny. We just have to be careful and make sure we don’t let our frustrations
get the best of us when handling babies because they don’t know any better.
Tuesday, October 16, 2012
Saturday, October 13, 2012
Favorite Concert
“Ahhhhhhhhhh, I can’t believe I finally get to see Lil
Wayne!” I could feel the excitement in my screeching voice pierce my best
friend’s ears on the other line. We both cheered and screamed at this once in a
life time opportunity. Finally, I was going to see the man who entered my
dreams every night. All of Wayne’s music
overflowed my tiny baby blue Ipod Nano, his posters and cd covers decorated the
bright pink walls of my adolescent room, his music was the only music played on
my Myspace page, his quotes were my only Facebook status, and he was always the
topic of discussion every time I’d talk on the phone to my best friend. We were
constantly in competition over who loved Wayne more. It didn’t seem like a
moment passed where we didn’t profess our love for him. Wayne was everything to
me because he was so talented. I never heard anyone rap like that before it was
clever, witty, and filled with all types of puns. He had such an “I don’t give
a fuck attitude” and I loved it. The more my mom and dad would try to stop me
from listening to him, the more I wanted to rebel. So when I found out one of
my sisters’ friends had an extra ticket to go see Young Money, I was all for it
and I knew I had to look my best. Finally, I was going to go see the one person
who meant everything to me.
I dyed
my hair jet black to go along with my mid-length funky hair cut I’d gotten a
couple days before. I fluffed up my do
with some Farrah Fawcett flips. I decided to spice up my make up with a Marlin
Monroe red hot lipstick. I aligned my lips with a darker red lip liner pencil for
definition and stole my mom’s “Chili Pepper Red” MAC lipstick. For my eyes I
went with dramatic thick black winged eyeliner inspired by Amy Winehouse. My
fit had to be right so I went for a sexy yet hip Rihanna look. I wore my
H&M black and grey leopard pencil skirt. Hitting right below my knees it
hugged my tiny curves in all the right places. I wore my favorite bright purple
halter top. It tied around my neck showing a smidge of my upper back and on the
front in gleaming sequins read “Bebe”. I kept it simple, but chic for my shoes
sliding on my older sister’s black suede wedge heels. And lastly, the previous
week I’d found a vintage Louis Vuitton mini clutch tucked away in the crevices
of my grandmother’s attic. After wiping off the cob webs and dust, the little
purse became the cutest accessory accentuating my outfit to the upmost. It was
trapezoid -shaped, shiny patent leather material, off-white, with golden
handles, and covered in the Louis Vuitton print. The bag was really special to
me because it was my mother’s. I felt like I was her back in her party days,
but I still wanted to add more of my own flavor to it. So I took an old broken
necklace chain and attached it to the handles of the purse giving it an
extension. “There.”, I thought, “ I look good so I feel
good, now I’m ready to see Wayne.”
Tuesday, October 9, 2012
Memoir: 1st bus ride
The morning air was cool and brisk on my skin as my sister
and I trudged to the bus stop across the street. We headed towards my new
school mates, I gulped and my knees began to tremble. The kids towered over me
making me feel like a tiny ant. They spoke so maturely and seemed completely
un-phased about starting school. Too them, this day was nothing more than déjà
vu. I clung to my older sister clutching her hand tightly within mine. She shot
a cold glare at me and tried nudging me off of her until she saw puddles
forming in the corners of my eyes. I heard a loud bustle that sounded like one
of those huge 18-wheeler trucks I’d seen on the highways. I turned around and
there in front of me was this massive burnt yellow contraption on six wheels.
It smelled of smoke and gas and it was quite filthy. It was almost as tall as
the tree on my front lawn and about as long as three cars, it read “Shaker City
Schools” on both sides in black letters, and it had a thick black horizontal
line stretching all around it. The bus driver stopped abruptly and the wheels loudly
screeched against the pavement. Suddenly, the glass doors opened and a bright
red blinking sign, which read “STOP” in bold white font, extended from the
other side. All the kids marched to the bus in a single file line. My sister
was headed for the back of the line. But still squeezing her palm, I resisted.
My legs went numb and stiffened as if they had turned into cement pillars
sprouting from the concrete side walk. “Come on Nia!”, my sister urged me, “It’s
time for school!”. I took a deep breath in, closed my eyes and exhaled. My boney
knees lightly smacked each other while I wobbled up the steps of the bus. The
doors shut behind me before I knew it. And there I was contained within the
stomach of that huge yellow monster formally known as the school bus.
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